Before I start anything, just to remind you all that all the pictures I have on my blog are not my work and I want to thank Google once again for helping ...
It has been a long time since I last wrote something. Let us hope this time it is a charm?!
Been looking back at life recently? At your life? Well what is it you have seen, suffered - the political correct way would be experienced ;)- that has seen you move forward, change and know that you are no longer that person you used to be??
I, as any other person have seen myself change and evolve lately. Now let us be reminded that not everyone is ready and wants to acknowledge that you have grown and that you have changed. Hence, i repeat, do not change for someone else but yourself. As we get that out of the way, we move on to more pressing matters.
You are indeed an evolving being, everyday and all the time. You are bound to, but I believe that the people who are exposed to hurt and bad experiences and recognise them, are at an advantage. They are able to adapt to various situations and recognise when things are about to go down. Some call it whatever they want to, but I call that a gift from God. Do not think of your challenges as challenges, do not think that because people do not accept you for who you are, then you are what they think you are. You are you and unless they have walked and worn your shoes, they might never understand unless they get to accept and listen to your essence...
As a single lady -with a lot of experience there ;)- I can tell you that certainly, the best moments are when you find yourself. You realise that you are evolving, you learn to trust yourself and your decisions, and you know that whatever you are doing, has come with deep thought and/or experience. Through all the challenges that I have been, I managed to find myself back to my path to happiness. So get sometime alone - applies to all homo sapiens, find you and get to moving on up!!!
Take the Happy road, walk on burning charcoal and heaven is bound to be reached. It is a choice you have to make for yourself, let noone dictate how you should look, be or feel? Now listen, I am not saying do not listen to your elders....as a matter of fact, the best thing you can do for you..is listen to your elders...Sounds cheesy, but TRUUUUST me you will spare yourself so much disappointment. But the point of making you count, means that the more knowledge you have got the better the decision you will make. And the less regrets you will have, as you will be aware of the consequences and the results that shall emanate from your actions.
Peaces of Loves...;p
deep thoughts sistah.. glad u r back!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for the support dear. glad to be back as well hope it continues like this
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