We have all been through so many situations that have put us in the worst conditions, we have fallen and lost all confidence, dignity and pride...The worst moments of course for someone who is not fighting a daily struggle!!
But what makes a person you once had so much in common with hurt you and then hate you for hurting you, sincerely, as a psychologist I have tried and tried to understand how that even comes to be. But then the only thing that comes to mind is how low that person must be, or how bad of a coward, mentally unstable that person must be...to hurt you, diminish you, blame it on you and when you become the bigger person you are given knives all over the place. How is that even making sense in any of the ways!!
I have given up trying to understand as it only drains and pains me more than ever, I will pity that person as it is the only thing one can do is such situations...pity, that person finds no sleep at night, as they know how much they have hurt, and you know that person is not happy like you know they could have been. Once you hurt a person that has given you everything and nothing, and been there for you through thick and thin, you are not able to live by idle.
May be a wishful thinking but it is nothing but reality, noone goes far living off the pain of others, that is a fact, but do we want to wish that on someone you have once cared and given your life for?? Not sure we do...
Though as sad as it may be letting go is only the best of the best in such situations, and being strong and watching their life go where you fear the most is the only thing you can do. Their happiness is at stake and they have destroyed more than they ever wished to destroy.
Advice of the day: Always think before you hurt who loves you the most, always make sure you keep it civil and peace, and always tell the truth it may hurt but you will always be remembered as the best in someone's life. You cannot make miracles but you surely can be a miracle...
Peace and Love
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